Often, parents cannot accept one important truth: children come into this world already as individuals, already as someone. Moms and dads, expecting the birth of a child, think that the universe gives them clay, which they can use to cast whatever they want. But the truth of life lies in the fact that G-d sends them an independent soul, with its own destiny, with its own talents, with its own strengths and weaknesses. This soul, this child, already has their own mission, their own path, their own destiny. Where the parents’ task is to help the child find their path – by creating a warm, friendly atmosphere providing the child grounds to naturally manifest their unique qualities and reveal their nature.